Feeling bad for anyone is a pointless emotion,, Or is not??

Bringing up boys in a world so tempered by ping ponged emotions has me thinking 1 important purpose…

All that we do and how we love will never be reciprocated in the same manner bc we are not all same alike souls,,

So all this being tough, loving hard, protecting the innocent visually, making your day the purpose to help get somebody where they want to go,,, is it getting ourselves any closet to where The Main Purpose of ourself???

It’s like peeing on your own leg,

No 1 feels it but U!!!

I still will never change any of my days from birth to now bc loving and seeing the people I love smile will always be my mission…

Love mama Dukes




To all my fans,,

Starting next week going to be having a 15 minutes a day of live self helping Rehabbing our own ❤️ heart.

Stay tuned and join me on social media pages of all kinds.

See you all soon!

Love Mama Dukes

Will it ever end?

When we begin to think about it having a end is when we start making our moments count. Even when we are in Jeopardy of coming close to the end when it can results in happy or sad end. If we can live in the now and do the best we can then maybe the end result would be different???

Today make every second count and not think of where the end of day will be. The end of today is only the prep for our tomorrow. God bless you all

Always expect the unexpected.,

In this crazy little world they call life, I have learned from early age to always remain happy. No matter if we plan or schedule our day seems like the routine always alters in a small or huge way. Now in my mid years of life expecting the unexpected keeps the suspense in each day differently.

If we try and remember a day within the last month that we had appointments, meeting, special occasion or a appointed gathering which we were expected to be prompt. An event that we plan ahead for our minds predict the day and we pick out an outfit or arrange certain meals to be feeling good and healthy.

Time in the reality gives people a organized sequence to when is proper to do things throughout our daily tasks. Sunrise to sunset the world revolves together to grow people, animals and plants with the sun going up till it drifts to bed when the moon starts work. The funny part of the universe is that God is the controller of every second and guides us with the planned  and each curve ball situation that sends us on an uproar,, thr unexpected. I Smile through the tarty times and laugh if I dont always have the day as I wanted. Lets start to be more relaxed when I eyes open in the morning till we close our eyes at night,,WHy ??? I say because the unexpected almost every time teaches a new lesson and when we make perfect timing then we see why living in ease is the way intended till eternity. Lets try and make everyday a wonderful moment in our journey:)

Why not put a filter?,Looking fine w Purple lips

A wise lady once said,” pack on the makup for a gorgeous portrait or get a a picture to look beautiful with a New Age Filter”.

No Filter Sunday
Just good lighting and perfect timing of the capture button🌼

I decided to start feeling better by looking at the camera like I was flirting w myself. From today on, I am going to stop I’m the mirror quick daily and wink at my inner beauty.

Oh my Lips look like a sweet plum. Maybe someday I’m the Real-time I will match lipstick with outfit. I am going to dare to try new things,, lip color definitely a start.👄

How is it that we can be so hard on ourselve?

Why are we so hard on ourselves yet so kind to everyone else?


I have been so harsh to myself about what I do, how I think, what I wear, my hair,outfit,smell, my own voice,about anything that has to do with me. I have noticed that I am so kind and sweet to everyone around me including strangers saying something nice or a funny positive comment to make them smile. Even if I make a joke about myself or putting  myself down to see a chuckle to make their day.

As I been taking 5 mins to myself a day I am realizing that I am not a good person to ME. Does anyone notice this about themselves?

After months of trying to rehab my heart from hurts in my life, I noticed that making others happy is all I do. Not too often do I do for me..

What do you think I should try to help and be nice to Me?